There are two ways to look at this.
Man, this is hard.
What a great experience we get to have!
I choose the latter. Because my cousin is really smart.
All the time.
Guru-ji taught me WOW. My cousin reminds me of it daily just by being.
You always have a choice as to hownview things. Choose the one that makes you say WOW, the one that brings joy, the one that precipitates peace.